Part of living healthy is being in a healthy mental state. You can eat all the healthy food you want take all the vitamins and supplements you want diet, exercise every day, but if you are messed up in the head :) in your thinking you truly are not a healthy person. You will be physically healthy (partially) but mentally making crazy off the wall decisions in all areas of your life in turn causing you to become mentally and physically unhealthy in the long haul.
See the WHOLE you has to be in good health. So I want to give you some tips on how to have a healthy mind and actually have GREAT over all health both physically and mentally. But first let me pose few questions, I want YOU to ask your self these questions and honestly answer them, you don't have to answer them to anyone else but yourself, just be honest with yourself, that's the first step.
1. Did I write some new years resolutions and if so how am I dong in them?
2. Are there more days of me not reaching toward my New Years resolutions & trying to forget I
ever wrote them than days of actually trying to go after them?
3. Do I continually think of things I haven't completed and make my self feel guilty?
4. Am I a dreamer who is often disappointed with how things are turning out in my life?
5. Do I continually strive to "do it better" or "make situations change" with not much luck?
6. Do I write personal/work goals out on a continual basis always seeming to write the same thing
(that never gets accomplished)
IF you answered YES to ANY of these questions what I am going to write about over the next few weeks is for YOU! Don't be discouraged if any of the above questions or ALL of the above questions describe you. If that is the case then you are with 95% of the American public, and the whole goal here is to help you who want to, to get out of this rut and climb out.
So for the first tip I want you to
take ownership.
What do I mean by ownership. Well Ownership of where you are today and how things are today in your home and work situation, your relationships etc.... Now I know and totally understand that some of us get dealt a good deck of cards in life and some of get the short straw, but regardless of which one you get
it is how you react to it that makes all the difference in the world. Is it fair that things that happened to you? NO but how are you acting about it? How you react determines your future and your health.
Think about that for a minute if you get so upset and fire off your mouth at your boss or co-worker do you think you work situation and relationships there will be the same? If they are not the same wont that effect you EVERY DAY you go in to work and see those people? Of course it will. So take ownership of your reaction to EVERY situation.
Take ownership today of where you are at in your life and make a conscience decision that NO MATTER WHAT, YOU are going to make a difference, you aer going to commit to making the change in what ever area you want to see it in.
Now remember change is a process its not an over night success so this
will take some time, determination and some patience.
But I believe in you, you can do it!
SO what I want you to do is to think of an area that you REALLY, REALLY want to see change in; it could be any area and write it down. Write out
I want to see change in ____________. (work, marriage, relationships, finances, my temper etc....)
I will make forward steps in the right direction EVERYDAY to make this come to pass.
When we write it out it gives us a visual, and it acknowledges in this natural world that we want to see change in that area. Now under this you can jot down some ideas that you might think would help you to make some change in that area. for example if it is relationship you want to make changes in write out some things you could do to improve this relationship. Call more, send a note, talk heart to heart tell them what on your mind, air out any frustrations to get thing cleared up and so on...
I encourage you to maybe get a note book so when I do ask you to write stuff out you will have it all in one place.
Next time we will do more of a brain storming activity to help with what to do.
Thanks for reading and I hope you come back to continue on the journey to total Health!